The ability to rest is a skill that should be cultivated throughout our lifetime. Wearing many hats (or shoes) can be exhausting. We all need to find ways to replenish our energy level, no matter the circumstances. Can't meditate? What about exercise regularly? Well, you should find your own ways to unload. Here are some helpful tips from Ph.D Rick Hanson:
"Imagine the benefits for you and others if you
listen to the support and wisdom of your dear friend and innermost being. Then
commit to what makes sense to you, in terms of nudging your schedule in a more
restful direction, refusing to add new tasks to your own bucket, taking more
breaks or simply helping your own mind be less busy with chatter, complaints
about yourself and others or inner struggles. For example:
1. Upon first waking, bring to mind your
fundamental purpose in life, whatever it is, and rest in the felt knowing of
it, in giving yourself over to it, like resting in the warm cradling current of
a great river.
2. At meals, pause for half a minute with your
food before you start eating.
3. Be aware of that little space between the end
of an inhalation and the beginning of an exhalation (or vice versa). From time
to time each day, notice that space and rest into it.
4. When you complete a task, take a break for a
few seconds or more before shifting gears to the next one.
5. Promise yourself that you'll take a minute or
more each day to sit quietly and remain present with yourself while doing
nothing (this is an essential type of meditation).
6. Have real times each day when you truly
"clock out" -- no longer on task or accountable to anyone.
7. Encourage your mind to come to rest at least
occasionally. Tell yourself you can worry/problem solve/grumble later. The
mind/brain is like a muscle, and it needs to stop working sometimes to
replenish and rebuild itself.
And when you rest, sink into its pleasures, its
rewards, and sense them sinking into you, like a warm rain falling on thirsty
ground."
Rick Hanson, Ph.D., is a neuropsychologist and
author of the bestselling "Buddha's
Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom"
(in 21 languages). Founder of the Wellspring Institute for Neuroscience
and Contemplative Wisdom and Affiliate of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley
Source: Huffington Post
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